Discover Your Partner’s Secrets
Choose deeper connection, not the same old patterns. Secure the Connection actually helps you communicate, heal your attachment style, and get closer than ever.
Ready to discover the secrets to a stronger connection?
Secure the Connection is the first card game made to explore attachment styles and heal anxious-avoidant relationships. Crafted by relationship experts, it uses fun prompts to spark deep conversations and strengthen your connection like never before. Get ready to heal together!
How Secure the Connection Transforms Your Relationship
See Them Open Up Like Never Before
With Secure the Connection, you’ll finally get those deep, open conversations you’ve been craving.
Feel Closer with Every Card You Draw
This game guides you both to express feelings and connect on a whole new level.
Finally Feel Secure and Understood
With every card, you’ll strengthen your bond and feel reassured in their commitment.
Add a Little Playfulness to Your Relationship
Secure the Connection makes bonding fun, with additional prompts that let you laugh and grow together.
The Heart Behind the Cards
Get to know us, and the motivation behind our mission of healing relationships worldwide.
What is Your Relationship Style?
Gain insights into your attachment style and select the deck designed for your growth.
Who Is This Game Designed For?
Couples Who Want To Deepen Their Bond
- You love your partner, but sometimes you struggle to truly understand each other.
- You want to communicate better and feel emotionally closer.
The Anxious-Avoidant Couple
- One of you craves closeness, while the other needs space.
- You have the same fight over and over but don’t know how to fix it.
From First Dates To Forever
- Just started dating? Secure the Connection lays the foundation for healthy communication.
- Been together for years? Keep your bond strong with deeper, more meaningful conversations.
Personal-Growth Focused Individuals
- You want to understand your attachment styles and how they affect your relationships.
- You’re interested in psychology and personal development.
Secure the Connection
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Let customers speak for us
from 17 reviewsMy girlfriend and I have been together for two and a half years, but we kept falling into anxious and avoidant patterns that almost tore us apart. We talked a lot and tried to fix things, but nothing really worked, until we started playing this game. Honestly, without it, we literally would have broken up. The questions are deep but also fun, and it’s so cheap for what you get. It helped us reconnect on a level we didn’t think was possible. I totally recommend it to everyone who wants to strengthen their relationship or friendship.
I really thought that this game would trigger my avoidant boyfriend even more, but it was the opposite. I feel very close to him now. So big thank you!
I've been journalling everyday, and feel like im way less triggered than i used to be. so happy!!!!
this game helped me being less anxious, and i feel like i really understand my girlfriend better now. big thanks.
Me and my boyfriend have tried many couples card games before, but this one felt like it was made for us. We did not understand much about attachment styles before but I now understand him and our relationship so much better. Thanks!
Way better than I thought it would be. Thought provoking questions that really helped deepen my relationship
this journal has helped me become more aware of a lot of patterns that i did not even know i had. i feel like i have been so much more calm since i started writing.
I was really scared that my partner was not going to open up, but he did. I think the added truth or dares really helped with keeping it lighter for him so opening up made it easier. Knowing more about what he feels and is going through has improved our relationship so much. I finally feel more secure.
Omg it helped me so much with my partner and our relationship 🥰
We were able to reconnect in a fun way and discuss our feelings in such an honest way without it being a heavy emotional discussion. It gave us the opportunity to really connect and heal.
I was so scared that it wouldn't help, but my partner finally started to open up because of these cards!
Amaziiiiing me and my partner love this cards so much!
I am so happy with this game. I have already seen growth in my avoidant partner!! He opens up more, and I feel like he finally understands me better as well. 5/5
A little gift from us
Everyone deserves a tool to help their relationship grow.
This free PDF gives you 10 conversation starter cards from Secure the Connection: a mini version of the game to spark meaningful conversations with your partner.